tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6531889887560074996.post2782657415716087687..comments2023-05-04T05:32:54.601-07:00Comments on Janet's Gems: dreamin dreaminJanneyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13501789174168905005noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6531889887560074996.post-73380590176680396012010-12-20T19:38:01.175-08:002010-12-20T19:38:01.175-08:00that's ok!! I'm feeling happy today. I gue...that's ok!! I'm feeling happy today. I guess I'm just as negative as mum.... having two melancholy personalities in one house doesn't help I spose !Janneyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13501789174168905005noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6531889887560074996.post-84758038250068075622010-12-20T17:44:06.716-08:002010-12-20T17:44:06.716-08:00oh. I didn't realise. Sorryoh. I didn't realise. SorryLuarnahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02501334500390359269noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6531889887560074996.post-35141844177401316792010-12-16T16:32:27.503-08:002010-12-16T16:32:27.503-08:00Um, I don't pay my own bills or buy the grocer...Um, I don't pay my own bills or buy the groceries because it would be a waiste of money. Mum can afford it and because I'm giving up my indepence to look after her I would resent giving up most of my income when she can afford it. I guess she does help me with Catherine. But she is also really negative and it affects me.Janneyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13501789174168905005noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6531889887560074996.post-59422960387990042802010-12-16T15:44:47.214-08:002010-12-16T15:44:47.214-08:00In reference to your "dream of the perfect li...In reference to your "dream of the perfect life". I dont see why you can't do all those things you mentioned now. The only bit I see that you can't do is buy a house cause your parents have made sure you are provided fro in that repect. As for living at home. Your Mum needs you doesn't she. Dont you kinda need each otjher. you to look after her and her to help with Catherine. Quite a good set up really. I cna understand when you wish for the "other life" but it's not all roses. infact it's realy hard at times. <br />Oh adn i dont think your a "looser" fro being home with your mum. You're amazing fro sacrificing that part fo your life to care for her. God will honor you for it. just you watch and see.Luarnahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02501334500390359269noreply@blogger.com